long distance relationships

To the anon with their girlfriend 4,000 miles away: My ldbf and I are in that same boat. 4,000 miles and the 5 hr time difference. For the ticket cost situation though, try www(.)skyscanner(.)com I love the site. I just found tickets from LHR (London) to RDU (Raleigh, NC) for $1,133 from Anonymous

wow! thank you for helping others too <3 

-Destiny<3


I live 4000 miles from the girl I love, there's a sea between us, there's a 5 hour time difference, and it would cost 2000 dollars for her to come see me... I just want to hold her in my arms but I can't and it's unlikely that I'll be able to anytime soon. long distance relationships suck, and they're so difficult, but I love her and I'd wait forever for her from Anonymous

Something thats easy and creative is make each other a survival kit for each other. fill it with a blanket that smells like you, a tee shirt of hoodie, books, candy, postcards, a journal, a teddy bear, movies, etc. or you guys can have date nights over skype. order in chinese of pizza and watch the same movie over skype together. i know it isn’t perfect but it helps not miss them as much. i hope this helps :) 

-Destiny <3


hi!! i've been with my boyfriend for 7 months, he's Russian and i'm from the UK. He goes to school here but he's now gone back home for the summer...i'm used to seeing him every day apart from a couple of weeks for holidays or christmas but now i wont see him for 2 months and i'm already missing him like crazy :( we talk a lot and skype but it doesn't replace him being here... advice? from fluidityy

Oh hun I know exactly what you’re going through. I used to go to boarding school and I was in the exact same position. I missed the guy like crazy too, but I just made sure to talk to him as much as possible. Just keep skypeing with him, texting him if you can, talk to him on the phone, and so on. Try to schedule times to talk, and you can even plan like dates and stuff, like watching a movie while you two are skypeing or something. Just remember that the relationship is fragile when it’s long distance, so you both need to choose your words carefully. Try to avoid arguments, and if there is something small, not like anything too big, try to see if you can guys can just move on without fighting or anything. And I don’t know if it’s possible for you, but maybe try to see if you can fly out to see each other or something. I know its hard, and I wish there was an easier way, but you just have to remember that all the long distance is temporary. 


I just want someone who won’t get annoyed when I text them six times or in all caps. Someone I can go on long drives with and can sing along to the radio with. Someone I can eat pizza with at 2am and kiss at 6pm. Someone who chooses me everyday and never thinks twice about it.

— so perfect (via n-ycity)

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I love this boy and weirdly enough he's 1 year younger than me but- like- I love him so much. He's from the UK and honestly there's NO way that we can meet any time soon because I lack the money. is there any possible way that I can meet with him? or other ways that I might be able to enjoy being with him aside from skype? also he's leaving for a week next week because he's going to Wales for some trip with his school. I'm worried. He has a lot of friends that are girls. from Anonymous

hey! thanks for the message. honestly you do need to trust him with his friends. if you likes you hen wouldnt do anything with the other girls. you could start like a youtube channel or try to google ways to raise money. maybe you guys could meet half way? he could also try to come see you but only if your parents say its okay because i know some parents are strict about long distance relationships. i really hope this helps and feel free to inbox me again :) 

-Destiny